welcome to our website! we are vrchat's largest lgbtq+ centered hangout space, created to provide the lgbtq+ and ally players a place to find community, network, and make friends. we have been around since early 2023, and building our community from the ground up since then- even being vetted and approved by vrchat themselves. we operate within our vrchat world and the events we hold across all of vrchat. just like the lgbtq+ community itself, we are constantly evolving and adapting- we take pride in consistently offering new experiences to our players and receiving feedback from our community!

additionally to the things listed above, we offer you:
- a carefully selected staff team, who work hard to ensure you can enjoy our community without the interruption of malicious users.- weekly events that change each rotation, we include events for a general audience and 18+ events for our older gays who want to only socialize with adults- find out more by checking out the event button at the top of the page!- a discord server, where you can chat with the friends you make within our community outside of vrchat- the link to our discord can be found in the links button at the top of the page!- a free public quest compatible and optimized avatar of our adorable moth mascot! you can find it in our world next to the main area's mirror :)

  WHO DOESN'T LOVE EVENTS?!   we sure do, and we offer plenty of them to our community! read below to find out more information about specific events we offer. as of right now, we only offer NA timezone friendly events, but this is due to shortages in event staff. once we have enough EU event staff, we will start hosting them with our NA ones. you can apply for event staff and help us out by clicking the links/info button at the top of the page and filling out our form to apply!

  GAYME NIGHTS   calling all gaymers! have you ever wished to be surrounded by other queer people while playing among us in vr?! how about murder 4, never have i ever, or literally any game in vrchat?!?! if the answer is yes, then our gayme nights are for you! join us on nights they are scheduled to enjoy your favorite games with a heavy sprinkle of queer added on top of the experience!

  EDUCATIONAL EVENTS   our community is constantly educating allies and each other on the lgbtq+ topics. so much so, that we realized there is a very large demand for education on queer history, identities, and experiences overall. our efforts to combat this consist of our educational events, where we allow a trusted speaker to lead a class or presentation on whichever queer topic they decide, and allow our listeners to ask them questions and interact at the end. some examples of educational events we cover/are planning to cover are: vocal feminization/masculinization/neutralization, queer identities, how different cultures have expressed queerness historically, general queer history, diving into biological sex vs. gender, and many more! wanna become a speaker? apply for event staff!

  PEER TO PEER EVENTS   like said above, there is a major lack of queer education online. our peer to peer events are similar to our educational events, with a more informal support group feel. we dive into our personal experiences as lgbtq+ people, and give advice for how we got through some challenges we have experienced thus far, making an effort to real with it all and diving into the nitty gritty and not so pretty aspects of our journey. some examples of topics we can talk about are: coming out, our journeys with our identities and how we got to where we are today, our personal observations of how life is different after coming out, and more!

  18+ EVENTS   as adults, it can sometime be alienating and frustrating to be surrounded by people much younger than you online. this is what sparked us to begin hosting 18+ events, to give the adult side of our community a place to meet other adults, have some drinks, and let loose! we have multiple different activities for our adults, but we are most excited about our "beers for queers" bar experience, along with some fun adult oriented games like cards against humanity as warmups before the bar! all of our staff will do manual age verification of each attendee of these events and kick all who are underaged, so you do not have to worry about anyone slipping through the cracks- that being said, these events are strictly for sfw hanging out, nothing else... all of our community rules apply to them- so be mindful!

  HANGING OUT OUTSIDE THE HANGOUT   a lot of our members expressed interest in visiting other places across vrchat with our lgbtq hangout community! this is essentially what our "hanging out outside the hangout" event is. we explore all kinds of different worlds- like the black cat, karaoke, scenic worlds, and more! these events are our longest lasting events, as we usually host in them for many hours at a time, just like we do with our own world, to introduce new people to our community!

  LISTED BELOW ARE ALL OF OUR LINKS AND SOCIALS   this includes our patreon, so you can purchase vip, vip+ or advertiser slots in our world! additionally, our staff applications are linked. one is for moderation and one is for event staff- feel free to fill them out if you are over the age of 18! our vrchat community is also linked here if you are finding this page from a different platform, so make sure to join our group if you want!

  WE GREATLY APPRECIATE OUR PARTNERS AND HELPERS!   over time, we have amassed a plethora of people who have helped us in our journey of developing the world- be it through sponsorship, collaboration, custom work, etc. listed below are these people and organizations! to become a partner, join our discord and contact us!

  LISTED BELOW ARE MEMBERS OF OUR PATREON AND VRCHAT STORE SUPPORTERS! we thank you all greatly for helping us, allowing us to buy more assets for the world, financially supporting the community creator, and showing genuine support and love for our community! it's because of users like you all that we can continue expanding and developing the lgbtq hangout!